Category:Jenny/thinker elsewhere

Woozle

This refers to something Jenny wrote in one of her notes about wishing "the thoughts on the page and the thinker elsewhere" – that she felt embarrassed by my physical presence, which came as a bit of a shock to her in contrast to her enjoyment of our written correspondence. I've scanned the note but not yet uploaded it.

I have a theory I like that maybe she subconsciously modeled me as female, and my outwardly-male appearance always created an unpleasant feeling of cognitive dissonance for her.