Difference between revisions of "Marriage boycott"
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* Entering into marriage would mean effectively signing a contract where: | * Entering into marriage would mean effectively signing a contract where: | ||
** we don't get to read all the applicable rules before signing (much less set them ourselves) | ** we don't get to read all the applicable rules before signing (much less set them ourselves) | ||
Revision as of 02:36, 21 January 2011
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Why We Refuse to Get Married
- Entering into marriage would mean effectively signing a contract where:
- we don't get to read all the applicable rules before signing (much less set them ourselves)
- the applicable rules change from state to state
- the applicable rules can be changed over time, without our consent
- Until marriage is available to everyone, it discriminates unfairly against anyone who doesn't fit the standard model.
- It is too restrictive and doesn't allow for the kind of family we ultimately want to build.
- Both of us have tried marriage (Harena twice, Woozle once), and found it an entirely unsatisfactory tool for strengthening a relationship. It tended to push our relationships with our spouses – and our lives – in directions in which we did not want to go, weakening desirable elements of the relationship and initially hiding flaws which only became apparent later on.
There are a couple of other reasons which might be considered TMI by more socially-conservative folk; they are here.
We are not the only "couple" boycotting marriage; see issuepedia:marriage boycott.